True love

We girls must have to admit this—we certainly like it whenever our guys would tell us their tell tales of promises and all of those sweet flat words that they can ever think to flatter us and make us feel “loved and special”. Correct? I know this is true! I can tell. I appreciate it too whenever I’ll hear good and flattery words from my guy. However, did it reach your mind even once the notion that did your guy tell those things he thinks that you want to hear from him and not really mean it? Has there even a moment when you asked yourself if he is really willing to do all of those things he said for you?

I have this impression that sometimes we need to open up our minds and think twice as the guys do. You see, there actually lay a thin line between listening and hearing. It is preferable to listen to whatever it is being bombarded right before your face than t just hear it all the way. This is because listening involves the mind. This is when you are dissecting and understanding the information that reaches to your ear. Hearing on the other hand is just the perception of sound. You probably heard it, but never understood it. Having said so, how about listen to you think he can do as an implementation and manifestation of what he is wanting to say rather than just hearing everything he told you and not even seeing his real motive.

While it is true that we girls would absolutely appreciate it if we are flattered by our guys, it is also imperative to understand what your guy is talking about. In the end, loving a person is not just about telling her what she wants to hear. It is more about showing her what you want her to hear.