This blog is a collection of my favorite quotes about life,love,kindness and other inspirational stuffs.Have fun reading ~ Ruthie
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Showing posts with label LOVE YOUR FAMILY. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LOVE YOUR FAMILY. Show all posts
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Monday, January 27, 2014
Monday, January 13, 2014
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
To my children
“I don’t want my children to follow in my footsteps.
I want them to take the path next to me and go farther than I ever dreamt possible.”
Friday, September 27, 2013
Saturday, May 4, 2013
The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.
Independence is all about gaining self-reliance and responsibility. When we give our children more responsibility, we should also add more rights to go along with it so they learn that both are part of growing up and can be proud that it's happening. Any time we give our children more rights, we should also add more responsibility to balance everything out. It will help them from becoming self-centered. A good time to add these might be birthdays or other events that acknowledge their increasing maturity. This way, responsibilities are not resented, but accepted with pride as signs of growing up. Getting started doing this is fairly easy. Make a list of tasks you think they can be responsible for. Feeding the dog, doing the dishes, or whatever you think is appropriate for their age. Balance these new responsibilities with new rights. A later bedtime, more allowance, whatever you think is fair. Then step back and give them the opportunity to accomplish their task. Don't make approval conditional on success especially early on. The old college try is often a great teacher. Don't hover over them while they are doing it. Leave them to their task as a sign of trust. Don't have too high expectations. And finally, let go! Gradually step back and allow them to increase their independence.
It is vital that when educating our children's brains that we do not neglect to educate their hearts.
Children are the living messages to a time we will not see. We cannot afford to fail them.A recent quote by the Dalai Lama read, “My hope and wish is that one day, formal education will pay attention to what I call education of the heart. Just as we take for granted the need to acquire proficiency in the basic academic subjects, I am hopeful that a time will come when we can take it for granted that children will learn, as part of the curriculum, the indispensability of inner values: love, compassion, justice, and forgiveness.”The time is here. The time is now.
Children are the living messages to a time we will not see. We cannot afford to fail them.A recent quote by the Dalai Lama read, “My hope and wish is that one day, formal education will pay attention to what I call education of the heart. Just as we take for granted the need to acquire proficiency in the basic academic subjects, I am hopeful that a time will come when we can take it for granted that children will learn, as part of the curriculum, the indispensability of inner values: love, compassion, justice, and forgiveness.”The time is here. The time is now.
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
Friday, March 22, 2013
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Friday, March 1, 2013
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
My promise to my Kids: I am not your friend. I am your Mother. I will stalk you, flip out on you, lecture you, drive you insane, be your worst nightmare & hunt you down like a bloodhound when needed because I LOVE YOU! When you understand that, I will know you are a responsible adult. You will never find someone who loves, prays, cares and worries about you more than I do!
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