Remember when someone told you that quote "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" ? Well then Live it! Embrace that theory and accept nothing less. Once you have resolved to do the work and cut them loose, your life will feel like a tornado for a bit. You will have a few more fights and some explaining to do. These people enjoy walking all over you, so when you disappear from the radar they will want to know why. You can simple tell them that they make you feel bad about yourself and you don't want to feel that way anymore. That you are moving your life and person to a positive path and would rather focus on that, than the hurt and drama that they bring to you. They will not be happy. They will not understand. They will try to convince you otherwise. Stand up for yourself and tell them no. This is the decision you have made and will accept nothing less than pleasant people, quality experiences, and fulfilling relationships. Chances are they will walk away, angry, but still walking away. Then there you are, ready to move to the next happy relationship, all the while knowing what you want from it. ~voices.yahoo.com (Heather Prinz)
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