Pay attention to the ones who care before trying to get the attention of the ones who don't.

Have an open, loving attitude. If you want to be loved, love everyone. Be nice, gentle and friendly toward everyone. No one can find fault with the kindest person. Speak in a gracious way. Be respectful to all.Always respect the thoughts of others. Even if their thoughts do not quite add up, respectfully nod and smile. Nobody likes someone who argues their will into your head.