Saturday, May 18, 2013
Friday, May 17, 2013
Friends through thick and thin.
Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
Be comfortable in your own skin.
“The moment will arrive when you are comfortable with who you are, and what you are– bald or old or fat or poor, successful or struggling- when you don't feel the need to apologize for anything or to deny anything. To be comfortable in your own skin is the beginning of strength.”
― Charles B. Handy
Love is a symbol of eternity.
Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.
Find a person who LOVES you for exactly for who you are.
Find a person who LOVES you for exactly for who you are, good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty. The RIGHT person is going to think the sun rises and sets on you.
Our friends interpret the world to us.
Our friends interpret the world and ourselves to us, if we take them tenderly and truly.
Like everything else in this world.
Everyone needs to be needed, wants to be wanted, and loves to be loved. You are human and you need to be loved just like everything else in this world.
Have you already found your soulmates?
Soul mates are those one in a million people who have the perfect chemistry. They know what makes their partner cry and they know what makes their partner smile. They bring joy to each others life because they see the best in each other. They are each others voice and strength. They have immense faith in their relationship and they stand firmly together in the toughest of times.
The little things are God's blessings!
Sometimes the littlest things in life can make the biggest smiles and the best memories!
People change so you learn to move on.
People change so you learn to move on, life goes by so you may learn to appreciate it more, and sometimes bad things happen so good things may take their place!
It’s never easy when a marriage or significant relationship ends. Whatever the reason for the split—and whether you wanted it or not—the breakup of a relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings. But there are plenty of things you can do to get through this difficult time and move on. You can even learn from the experience and grow into a stronger, wiser person.
- Recognize that it’s OK to have different feelings. It’s normal to feel sad, angry, exhausted, frustrated, and confused—and these feelings can be intense. You also may feel anxious about the future. Accept that reactions like these will lessen over time. Even if the marriage was unhealthy, venturing into the unknown is frightening.
- Give yourself a break. Give yourself permission to feel and to function at a less than optimal level for a period of time. You may not be able to be quite as productive on the job or care for others in exactly the way you’re accustomed to for a little while. No one is superman or superwoman; take time to heal, regroup, and re-energize.
- Don’t go through this alone. Sharing your feelings with friends and family can help you get through this period. Consider joining a support group where you can talk to others in similar situations. Isolating yourself can raise your stress levels, reduce your concentration, and get in the way of your work, relationships, and overall health. Don’t be afraid to get outside help if you need it.
Source: Mental Health America
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Try to Make It Happen
It's worth a ton of possible pain. You might see the 'end' coming, but at least you try to make it happen.Realize that most of your fears are much bigger in your mind than they are in reality; you’ll see this for yourself as soon as you face them. Don’t let them stop you. Live your life so that you never have to regret the chances you never took, the love you never let in, and the gifts you never gave out.
“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”
I laugh, but I'm hurt. I'm hurt, but I smile. I smile, but I cry. I cry, but I won't give up. I won't give up, but I don't expect. I don't expect, but I still love. Sometimes, we have to be broken down to be rebuilt into the person we were meant to be.
** Nurture yourself. Self care is very important. Set up some time to be by yourself, just by yourself. Do something that gives you peace, love, and joy with yourself. You can nurture yourself physically by exercising and consuming healthy food. You can nurture yourself emotionally by listening to love songs, painting, or helping others in need. As you give yourself to others and offer help, you receive the gift of love back. You feel good about yourself because you live your life on purpose. You can nurture yourself mentally by reading your favorite books. You can nurture your spiritually by doing meditation.
Learn to Appreciate
Appreciation is vital to happiness!
Everything is a matter of choice. Happiness is a matter of appreciation. Live by your choice or be brave enough to admit your mistake and make a change.If we make it our mission to appreciate the people around us then the people around us will react and do the same thus changing our little world into a happier little world that will eventually spread into the bigger world.I really appreciate all of you being in my life and could not survive without you all.
Don't be afraid to fail.
People are either too scared to try something possible or too brave to get into something impossible.
.The best part of life is not just surviving, but thriving with passion, compassion, humor, generosity, and kindness, and using these tools to make the world a better place. If you can lie down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone’s day just a little brighter, you had a successful day.
Life is not Fair
Life's not always fair. Sometimes you can get a splinter even sliding down a rainbow.
I have limited number of friends, because I have unlimited trust to limited number of people.
Quality is what counts in friendship, not quantity. Besides that, you can only realistically manage so many friends in your life well. You have a limited number of hours in the day and have to nurture your friendships in order to keep them strong.
You’ll instinctively know if you need more friends when you feel lonely or end up doing a lot of things by yourself. Until then, don't worry about the number of people in your life and focus instead on being a good friend yourself.
Never create unnecessary drama, and don’t surround yourself with those who do. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it.
Quality is what counts in friendship, not quantity. Besides that, you can only realistically manage so many friends in your life well. You have a limited number of hours in the day and have to nurture your friendships in order to keep them strong.
Never create unnecessary drama, and don’t surround yourself with those who do. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it.
Happiness is not something you have in your hands; it is something you carry in you heart.
Happiness is not something to choose, but something to appreciate.If you are satisfied of what you have, surely you have happiness within your heart inside out.
Remind yourself that you are worth loving. Many people tend to get insecure about themselves, when in all reality we are all human beings! Always believe in yourself and be the confident optimistic you.
Every time you realize a negative emotion, pause and feel it; then thank yourself for feeling it, accepting it. Emotions are nothing more than internal experiences which contribute to who we are. Accepting problems (negative things) as opportunities (good things) in another perspective can yield great results (problem solving).
I'm not a backup plan and most definitely not a second choice.
"If I won't have you, that's DESTINY, but will NEVER BE MY CHOICE."
Learn to let go of past events. You deserve a fresh beginning! There are a lot of people out there that have had hard lives/bad beginnings or moments. Don't close yourself out of grief, disappointments, or fears of future ridicule. Acknowledge your feelings, but work to put them behind you. Cherish what you have learned from your challenges, and how you have changed and grown from them. Forgive those who have done you wrong. Most importantly, though, forgive yourself.
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